We went to the Houston Zoo yesterday. It's the second time we've made the trip. The first time was on Father's Day and we took many pictures to commemorate the occasion. I made a decision that on this trip we would not take any. You read that right, NO PICTURES.
Here's why I made this decision. It seems like every time we go somewhere or do something I want to take pictures. I think that makes me a pretty normal mom, and my family is all quite a distance from us so we take lots of pictures to share. But I have felt like we are taking so many that we are missing out on some of the fun. We really did forget the "real" camera (i.e. not the phones) and I decided to leave my phone in the van. If I didn't take it in, there was no temptation to use it. My husband took his phone, but he rarely uses the camera and we did not some way to tell time. Heaven forbid either of us wears a watch, right?
Anyway, we had a very good time. It was interesting to take in the differences. Instead of trying to get pictures and getting frustrated because they came out blurry or someone ran off before I could get the shot, I was more involved in what was happening. We bought the boys their first slushie and I got wrapped up in making faces with my oldest son. His tongue turned blue from the blue raspberry and we were taking turns sticking our tongues out at each other. I have to wonder if that would have happened if I was trying to get his picture instead.
And when my youngest son got hot and tired, we were able to get back to the van without anyone being disappointed about not getting pictures. We had a good time and I don't think anyone missed the camera. I was actually surprised with myself that I did not even think about the camera at all while we were in the zoo. It really never crossed my mind. I am pretty proud of that, actually. I'm hoping that the extra time we spent with the boys instead of behind the camera. I see a new trend in our future. That doesn't mean we will stop taking pictures all together, but I think that it's nice to not worry about it all the time.
Really, does the whole world need to see us eating Cheetos and Lunchables? No. Would my family enjoy the pictures. Yes. But I think they will forgive me for not taking pictures of it this time. And even if they don't, you know what? It's ok.
